They Know You’re Good

Narcissistic Manipulation

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I want you to hold onto one crucial truth: Narcissists know that you’re a good person. They’ve always known. From the very start, they recognized your kindness, your generosity, and your integrity. That’s why they targeted you.

But here’s the thing about narcissists.

They can’t handle accountability.

It’s like kryptonite to them. Rather than facing the harm they’ve caused, they’ll twist reality to shift the blame onto you.

They want you questioning yourself, doubting your actions, and second-guessing your worth.

I remember when I realized this in my own life.

The person who claimed to love me, who once showered me with compliments, suddenly began tearing me down.

They made me believe that I was the problem, that I wasn’t good enough.

It wasn’t true, of course. It was all a smokescreen.

A way to avoid owning up to their own toxic behavior.