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Sunday's Reflection: Loss, Love, and Lessons

Sunday's Reflection: Loss, Love, and Lessons

From my brother and my narcissist

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Feb 16, 2025
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The passing of my brother was the moment the world shifted for me. Grief cracked me open. Vulnerability became my permanent companion, and it was during this fragile chapter that I found myself walking back into the arms of a narcissist. Looking back now, I realize how grief created a space where I was more susceptible to manipulation.

Losing my brother is like losing a lighthouse. He was a quiet but steady guide, reminding me of who I was even when life pulled me in directions I didn’t recognize.

After he passed, I lost more than him. I lost my tether to certainty, self-worth, and boundaries. Entering back into a relationship with my narcissist(my brother’s best friend) felt, like being seen.

But is it?

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